When You Lose a Partner Losing a spouse is one of life’s most painful experiences. When that spouse was also the one who managed the family’s finances, the grief can be compounded by confusion, fear, and uncertainty.
Who will shovel the snow? Last week’s snowstorm was beautiful, but we all know the next morning there is work to be done. Some of our neighbors are now unable to shovel their own driveway. Usually, their children or grandchildren come to help, or the neighborhood chips in. But I know this does not happen for everyone.
Planning for Change The only thing constant is change. This is as true in care planning as it is in all areas of life. A good estate plan is one that can adapt and change with the curveballs life throws at you. This also means a good estate plan is one that you periodically review. It is not uncommon to see a Last Will that is twenty or thirty years old. The toddlers you named Guardians for are now adults with toddlers of their own.